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A Reflection on Happiness

Reflection on Happiness

by Karen Reagle

I talked several weeks ago with Rev. Jones about  the topic of today’s sermon.  He told me the title would be Are You Happy?  My first silent response was “yes”, and then I asked myself about what my response might cover up, as when someone asks you how you are and you quickly respond, “Fine” knowing that sharing how you are really doing would require more time and that your questioner has already moved past you and on to the next person or destination and you are glad you said “Fine” and your cover up may have been appropriate.

In my research for this reflection, I (as usual) consulted my favorite reference book,

WEBSTER’S COLLEGIATE DICTIONARY.  It said several things that for me didn’t fit and by the seventh iteration of the meaning of “happy” I found one that came close to my experience: “enjoying or characterized by well being and contentment.”

The quick “yes” is for my wonderful marriage, my successful and loving children and grand children, and connections with siblings and other relatives and friends.  My underlying thoughts were of a more questioning and spiritual nature.  I don’t want my response to be a cover up because I don’t believe happiness should  be the goal for one’s life, rather one’s deeds and actions, I believe, should reflect the spirit of God, or Love through me to my fellow human beings no matter how much it would disrupt my feeling of well being and contentment.  It would require thought and action. 


I hold up to myself Martin Luther King, Jr.’s quote of a Moroccan proverb, “He who has nothing to die for, has nothing to live for.”  I may not seek out ways of dying to help my fellow man, however, I do feel deeply for casualties of war, droughts, famine, poverty, discrimination by race, color, ethnic origin, and sexual orientation, and corporate greed to name some of my concerns.  I do not carry my depth of feelings to the level of the character of “May” in Sue Monk’s book, THE SECRET LIFE OF BEES, or Big John in the movie, THE GREEN MILE, but I identify with some aspects of these characters.

I am often drawn to Margaret Mead’s message that  “a small group of thoughtful people could change the world, it’s the only thing that ever has.”  She “measures success in terms of the contributions an individual makes to her fellow human beings:”

Let’s face it, living a life of enjoyment, well being and contentment, i.e. happiness may be easier than suiting up and showing up.  Instead  I choose to make the efforts to stand for a cause; search for and purchase a “made in America” product, each time I write or call my government representatives, I am acting, as the Rev. Dr. Joseph E. Lowery says, “A chaplain for the common good.”  In silence and with deep awareness each time,  I am striving to make my contributions to the common good of my fellow beings on this earth walk.  I pray that God, or Love, or Spirit be present through me NOW and HERE and that with each breath I take, I will feed my “fire within” toward transformation of me and my world to be aware and to love deeply.

Amen.